Sunday, May 31, 2015

Keeping It Fit, Keeping It Healthy, Keeping It MOVING - Together!

Bruce and me Memorial Day Weekend
The Mister and I have over one hundred years of combined life experience, after carrying the ones, tens, and so forth! That being said, we've reached the mature ages where we're pretty confident about the things we don't want in our lives from this point forward.

As Baby Boomers, we're among the many who have chosen to live lean and clean. And as a couple engaged in couples' ministry, we understand that it is vital to be fit vessels, and lead/live by example. All kinds of studies have been done on the ever increasing number of individuals enjoying good health and strength well into their Golden years. Thanks to both modern technology and good old fashioned healthful living - going back to basics and organically grown foods - people can live to be  productive at 100 years!

In our house, we've made intentional changes in the way we
Berry good!
approach our eating habits, and have experienced the benefits of regular cardio fitness routines, hydration and proper rest. Last year, I shared our 7 day juice cleansing fast - which was a huge success. We both lost inches and pounds in the double-digits! Consistency is key, and Bruce and I have been faithful to the plan.

It's always good to add more good things to the regimen. And what I've found is that adding on becomes necessary because our bodies let us know when we've reached a plateau and it's time for "more". The process is dynamic, not static; and so, I look forward to pressing on and exceeding the goals I've set. We reach for the highest we've ever achieved...and move beyond that! That's when we actually begin to experience the positive affects of all our good labor!

My personal best is always just that. Mine. I jog/run daily on my own in the park and on the weekends with the women's running group, "Black Girls Run".  Bruce's personal best is his own as well. He's on his bicycle almost every day, and we power walk together regularly. There is so much satisfaction when we both strive for our goals, achieve them - and celebrate one another for the achievement. The encouragement and support we give and receive, the concern, accountability and"tough love" we may sometimes need- is priceless! And it's so important to "keep it real" with one another.  Most of all, we engage in this lifestyle and have each others' backs without pressure. This keeps it fun, and enjoyable to the point where each day is a new adventure to look forward to!

No matter what the activity, regimen or routine - there is absolutely nothing like being partners in healthful living with your spouse or significant other. Changing your lifestyle requires changing your mind and replacing bad habits with good ones; the rewards are endless. Please believe me!

3-day smoothie/juicer that ends today!

Me at the park - in my" Girls on the Run"
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My new Nikes! - gift from Bruce!


The Full Monty

Bruce and his bike!



Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Cover Me - Her Emotions

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The Lord redeems the soul of His servants, and none of those who trust in Him shall be condemned. Psalm 34:22

Lord, help me not to react inappropriately or withdraw from my wife emotionally when I don’t understand her.  Give me patience and sensitivity, and may prayer be my FIRST reaction to her emotions and not a last resort.  Although I’m aware that I cannot meet my wife’s every emotional need, I know that You can. I am not trying to absolve myself from meeting any of her needs, but I know that some of them are intended to be met only by You.  I pray that You would fill her with Your peace and joy today. Amen.

Monday, April 20, 2015

Cover Me - Her Emotions

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Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. Romans 12:2

Lord, give (wife’s name) discernment today about what she receives into her mind. I pray she will quickly identify lies about herself, her life, or her future. Help her to recognize when there is a battle going on in her mind and to be aware of the enemy’s tactics. Remind her to stick to Your battle plan and rely on the sword of the Spirit, which is Your Word (Ephesians 6:17).  Keep me aware of when my wife is struggling so I can talk openly with her about what is on her mind and in her heart. Enable us to communicate clearly so that we don’t allow the enemy to enter in with confusion or misrepresentation. Amen.

Friday, April 17, 2015

Cover Me - Her Emotions

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Her Emotions

Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it springs the issues of life. Proverbs 4:23

Lord, I am so grateful that You have made my wife to be a woman of deep thoughts and feelings. I know that You have intended this for good, but I also know that the enemy of her soul will try to use it for evil. Help me to discern when he is doing that and enable me to pray accordingly.  Protect her from the author of lies and help her to cast down “every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.” (2 Corinthians 10:5)  Amen.

Thursday, April 16, 2015

Cover Me - Her Spirit

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Her Spirit

Whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life. John 4:14


Lord, as much as I love my wife, I know You love her more. I realize that I cannot met her every need and expectation, but You can. Help my wife to increase her knowledge of You today.  May she turn to You first for everything as You become her constant companion. Give her discernment and revelation and enable her to hear Your voice instructing her.  Help her to stay focused on You, not matter how great the storm is around her, so that she never strays off the path You have for her. I pray You would keep me aware of when she needs a fresh filling of Your Spirit so that I will be prompted to pray for her. Amen.

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Cover Me

Boaz Ministries

“Covering” is a kind of metaphor for husbands being the head – the wife coming under her husband’s wing. (1 Cor. 11:3-15, Eph. 5:22-24)

An ancient Hebraic wedding custom included a robe or shawl that a groom placed around the shoulders of his bride signifying she has come under his covenant covering of protection, and spiritual, physical, emotional, and material care.

In times like these, it is essential to cover our families in prayer daily. For the next few weeks, we will present more prayers for your spouse - beginning with husbands covering their wives in prayer and supplication to the Lord.

B & B Edwards

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