Friday, June 29, 2012
It's not about fairness
Forgiveness, that is. I've been enjoying the Bible series #apps4life, by
Pastor Michael B. Kelly, II, of the Mt. Rubidoux SDA Church in
Riverside, CA, the month of June. Each week he discussed specific areas
in the Christian life that need strengthening in order to be victorious.
In today's techie parlance - we have apps on our smart phones, and
those we can download from the "app store". But apps are useless if they
are not applied. The same goes for the life of a Christian. We
have the ultimate "app store" - the Word of God. And many of us have
downloaded good principles from this store. However, we find that we are
still living ineffective lives because we have not applied what we've
downloaded.
The app last week was forgiveness. If I could roll the tape on this sermon right here and right now, I would! There was sooo much meat!! A couple weeks before was the confession app, which was just as powerful, and the appropriate lead into the app of forgiveness. Kelly reminded us in that sermon, that confession is NOT to be used as a means to get rid of guilt and feel better about yourself. There is an important exchange that takes place between the confessor and God - where the wrongdoer agrees he or she is wrong and then receives the power to turn from that sin and NOT repeat it!! Too often, we just say "sorry", and go back and do it again - only to come back and say "sorry". No. That's not what confession is all about.
So forgiveness, we learned, is not about fairness. Because whoever did us wrong, however it happened - the truth is, they are wrong and it made us angry. Add to that, forgiveness is unnatural for us as human beings. Our first reaction to someone who has hurt us, is to retaliate, shut them out, off, down. So if forgiveness is not our natural bent, and the act of forgiving someone who has betrayed us isn't a fair exchange - how do we bridge this chasm?
Ahhhh - of course, most of you know what's next. "God takes up the slack." Well, yes He does. But even though He's able to give us this supernatural ability, we still remember. We can remember, but as we continue in our faith walk with the Lord, there is a certain elevation we achieve. We find we are able to carry on, move forward, knowing we have gained a victory. (and in some cases, re/gained a brother or sister)
The most important point of forgiveness, in my humble opinion, is we cannot expect to be right with God, asking for His forgiveness, while continuing to hold grudges against one another. It doesn't work that way, and the Bible makes that clear. Matthew 18 tells us how we are to treat one another, and the importance of forgiveness. Jesus said, in Matthew 6:14-15, that if we forgive those who have sinned against us, God will forgive us; but if we don't forgive those who have wronged us, we won't be forgiven. (paraphrase)
Even in our interpersonal/marriage relationships - how can we live together each day, harboring grudges against one another, holding on to unresolved hurts - yet show up to Bible study, or church, lifting holy hands and sing praises to the Lord - and ask for His mercy and forgiveness? It's as if we're saying, "Forgive ME, save ME, but that spouse I have isn't worthy of my forgiveness!" Guess what. Neither of us is worthy. But God has shown us a more excellent way. (1 Corinthians 12:31 - 1 Corinthians 13) Hint: it's all about love.
When we look at the entire picture - which is difficult at best, we understand there are just some things that God asks of us that require His power, and His alone. What I've found is, the more I learn about His will for my life, how I am to treat my family, friends, strangers, and yes, even those who are my enemies, the more I see my need FOR Him. The more I need Him, the more I rely ON Him and the blessings I receive I realize I don't deserve. Hey - I'm forgiven, don't deserve it - that can't be fair!
Exactly!
The sermons I referenced are found here:
http://campus.316networks.com/mt-rubidouxVOD
From Boaz Ministries
https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
The app last week was forgiveness. If I could roll the tape on this sermon right here and right now, I would! There was sooo much meat!! A couple weeks before was the confession app, which was just as powerful, and the appropriate lead into the app of forgiveness. Kelly reminded us in that sermon, that confession is NOT to be used as a means to get rid of guilt and feel better about yourself. There is an important exchange that takes place between the confessor and God - where the wrongdoer agrees he or she is wrong and then receives the power to turn from that sin and NOT repeat it!! Too often, we just say "sorry", and go back and do it again - only to come back and say "sorry". No. That's not what confession is all about.
So forgiveness, we learned, is not about fairness. Because whoever did us wrong, however it happened - the truth is, they are wrong and it made us angry. Add to that, forgiveness is unnatural for us as human beings. Our first reaction to someone who has hurt us, is to retaliate, shut them out, off, down. So if forgiveness is not our natural bent, and the act of forgiving someone who has betrayed us isn't a fair exchange - how do we bridge this chasm?
Ahhhh - of course, most of you know what's next. "God takes up the slack." Well, yes He does. But even though He's able to give us this supernatural ability, we still remember. We can remember, but as we continue in our faith walk with the Lord, there is a certain elevation we achieve. We find we are able to carry on, move forward, knowing we have gained a victory. (and in some cases, re/gained a brother or sister)
The most important point of forgiveness, in my humble opinion, is we cannot expect to be right with God, asking for His forgiveness, while continuing to hold grudges against one another. It doesn't work that way, and the Bible makes that clear. Matthew 18 tells us how we are to treat one another, and the importance of forgiveness. Jesus said, in Matthew 6:14-15, that if we forgive those who have sinned against us, God will forgive us; but if we don't forgive those who have wronged us, we won't be forgiven. (paraphrase)
Even in our interpersonal/marriage relationships - how can we live together each day, harboring grudges against one another, holding on to unresolved hurts - yet show up to Bible study, or church, lifting holy hands and sing praises to the Lord - and ask for His mercy and forgiveness? It's as if we're saying, "Forgive ME, save ME, but that spouse I have isn't worthy of my forgiveness!" Guess what. Neither of us is worthy. But God has shown us a more excellent way. (1 Corinthians 12:31 - 1 Corinthians 13) Hint: it's all about love.
When we look at the entire picture - which is difficult at best, we understand there are just some things that God asks of us that require His power, and His alone. What I've found is, the more I learn about His will for my life, how I am to treat my family, friends, strangers, and yes, even those who are my enemies, the more I see my need FOR Him. The more I need Him, the more I rely ON Him and the blessings I receive I realize I don't deserve. Hey - I'm forgiven, don't deserve it - that can't be fair!
Exactly!
The sermons I referenced are found here:
http://campus.316networks.com/mt-rubidouxVOD
From Boaz Ministries
https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Is it love, or infatuation?
A few years ago in Bible study, the question was put forth that stopped everyone in our tracks. I haven't forgotten it, and it's still a legitimate issue for those of us who call ourselves believers.
We hear a lot more from the pulpit about having a " personal relationship with Christ" than was preached back when I was growing up. And that's a good thing, too. Everything "old school" isn't all good. The old school religious approach had more to do with the scare tactic when it came to serving God. Admittedly, it was that kind of sermon that motivated my eleven-year-old self to walk up and give my heart to Jesus - to be baptized. I was just scared as all get-out and didn't want to burn!
Over time, I've come to see that while there will be judgment in the final day, believers don't have to be afraid, because they've developed a real, living and breathing love relationship with the Lord. I have learned how it's possible, and am no longer worried about hell fire and brimstone. Oh, am I perfect? No. But I made a vow to God, to love, trust and obey Him until Christ returns. And He's given me the power to stay on the path.
The way we can make it more understandable, this relationship thing, is to compare it to what we actually experience between two people who say they love each other. What typically happens is - the initial attraction. After that, two people develop a mutual affinity and begin to get to know one another - they spend as much time together as possible. We're all familiar with that. And we've all had experiences where that initial attraction faded after a few weeks of getting to know one another. Or, there have been those relationships that were mutually agreeable because of some benefit one or both received. And as long as the bennies were flowing, the interest flowed, too. But if the goodies ran dry - or someone else came along with a 'better package' - you know the deal. Can I get a witness that we've been there, or at least know someone who has?
Now - imagine a believer who comes to Christ. They hear the gospel story; the unspeakable gift God gave us through the sacrifice of His only begotten Son, Jesus - and weeps sincere tears of joy! Oh, the amazing grace that saved this wretch! Oh, the lost sheep is found and all heaven is rejoicing! And now, because of belief in Jesus and accepting Him as our personal savior - we have a right to the tree of life! HALLELUJAH! The day of baptism is akin to a wedding ceremony, for, indeed, the most important vow one can make is made to the Lord on that very special day.
After the rejoicing and celebrating - and all the people have gone home- the euphoria wears off. Day after day, a little more joy that was once so real and so wonderful, disappears. A week goes by, church seems the same but something is dying inside. What's happened? Nothing. And therein lies the problem. For some, because they don't want to appear as empty as they are, they will "fake" their Christianity. And they may fool their brothers and sisters in the church. (I dare say, most are faking it - I'll probably be booed for saying that - that's ok) A believer can stay in the church and even be active for many years - yet be on empty in Christ, never mind the Holy Spirit. Jesus said, in Matthew 15:8-9 (NLT) ‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. Their worship is a farce, for they teach man-made ideas as commands from God.' (that last part is a whole nother topic)
God knows who truly belongs to Him and who's faking. (2 Tim. 2:19) It's just like us, when we examine the behaviors of those who say they love us. They may be in heavy like with us, but it's certainly not love. If we're serious about having a love relationship with someone - isn't it true that nothing less than total commitment will do? It's no different with God - the Creator of this whole experience we're blessed to be having!
The Bible doesn't stutter about how we are to show our love for God. It is no secret. I am of the opinion that we ought to love Him simply because He IS - and He made us! Throughout the Word, we are instructed, yea, commanded to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength (Deut. 6:5, 10:12; Matt. 22:37; Mark 12:30; Luke 10:27). And the relationship is not one-sided, as so many human ones are! No! Our God is faithful to us, and made a vow to us and keeps His promises to us for "a thousand generations" - (to those who love Him! Deut.7:9). David, the Psalmist can't say enough about God and how he served and sought after God with his WHOLE heart! (Psalm 119:2, 10, 34).
This is not a halfhearted proposition - this relationship with the Lord. And I think, if we meditate on all the things He has done for us, if we acknowledge that He is the King and ruler of our hearts - and we accept His sovereignty over our lives, knowing He has our best interests in mind and heart (because He knows the end from the beginning) - how can we not fall in love with Him?
Think of it this way - we know that infatuation is just a passing phase, and we've all been there. Once we were "over" that short-lived experience with that person we were only in heavy like with, what happened? We dumped them (or got dumped)! Imagine if God had only been infatuated with us.
Are we in love? Or are we simply infatuated with the idea of God, Jesus and this whole Plan of Redemption thing? Just some stuff I've been thinking...
Blessings
We hear a lot more from the pulpit about having a " personal relationship with Christ" than was preached back when I was growing up. And that's a good thing, too. Everything "old school" isn't all good. The old school religious approach had more to do with the scare tactic when it came to serving God. Admittedly, it was that kind of sermon that motivated my eleven-year-old self to walk up and give my heart to Jesus - to be baptized. I was just scared as all get-out and didn't want to burn!
Over time, I've come to see that while there will be judgment in the final day, believers don't have to be afraid, because they've developed a real, living and breathing love relationship with the Lord. I have learned how it's possible, and am no longer worried about hell fire and brimstone. Oh, am I perfect? No. But I made a vow to God, to love, trust and obey Him until Christ returns. And He's given me the power to stay on the path.
The way we can make it more understandable, this relationship thing, is to compare it to what we actually experience between two people who say they love each other. What typically happens is - the initial attraction. After that, two people develop a mutual affinity and begin to get to know one another - they spend as much time together as possible. We're all familiar with that. And we've all had experiences where that initial attraction faded after a few weeks of getting to know one another. Or, there have been those relationships that were mutually agreeable because of some benefit one or both received. And as long as the bennies were flowing, the interest flowed, too. But if the goodies ran dry - or someone else came along with a 'better package' - you know the deal. Can I get a witness that we've been there, or at least know someone who has?
Now - imagine a believer who comes to Christ. They hear the gospel story; the unspeakable gift God gave us through the sacrifice of His only begotten Son, Jesus - and weeps sincere tears of joy! Oh, the amazing grace that saved this wretch! Oh, the lost sheep is found and all heaven is rejoicing! And now, because of belief in Jesus and accepting Him as our personal savior - we have a right to the tree of life! HALLELUJAH! The day of baptism is akin to a wedding ceremony, for, indeed, the most important vow one can make is made to the Lord on that very special day.
After the rejoicing and celebrating - and all the people have gone home- the euphoria wears off. Day after day, a little more joy that was once so real and so wonderful, disappears. A week goes by, church seems the same but something is dying inside. What's happened? Nothing. And therein lies the problem. For some, because they don't want to appear as empty as they are, they will "fake" their Christianity. And they may fool their brothers and sisters in the church. (I dare say, most are faking it - I'll probably be booed for saying that - that's ok) A believer can stay in the church and even be active for many years - yet be on empty in Christ, never mind the Holy Spirit. Jesus said, in Matthew 15:8-9 (NLT) ‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. Their worship is a farce, for they teach man-made ideas as commands from God.' (that last part is a whole nother topic)
God knows who truly belongs to Him and who's faking. (2 Tim. 2:19) It's just like us, when we examine the behaviors of those who say they love us. They may be in heavy like with us, but it's certainly not love. If we're serious about having a love relationship with someone - isn't it true that nothing less than total commitment will do? It's no different with God - the Creator of this whole experience we're blessed to be having!
The Bible doesn't stutter about how we are to show our love for God. It is no secret. I am of the opinion that we ought to love Him simply because He IS - and He made us! Throughout the Word, we are instructed, yea, commanded to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength (Deut. 6:5, 10:12; Matt. 22:37; Mark 12:30; Luke 10:27). And the relationship is not one-sided, as so many human ones are! No! Our God is faithful to us, and made a vow to us and keeps His promises to us for "a thousand generations" - (to those who love Him! Deut.7:9). David, the Psalmist can't say enough about God and how he served and sought after God with his WHOLE heart! (Psalm 119:2, 10, 34).
This is not a halfhearted proposition - this relationship with the Lord. And I think, if we meditate on all the things He has done for us, if we acknowledge that He is the King and ruler of our hearts - and we accept His sovereignty over our lives, knowing He has our best interests in mind and heart (because He knows the end from the beginning) - how can we not fall in love with Him?
Think of it this way - we know that infatuation is just a passing phase, and we've all been there. Once we were "over" that short-lived experience with that person we were only in heavy like with, what happened? We dumped them (or got dumped)! Imagine if God had only been infatuated with us.
Are we in love? Or are we simply infatuated with the idea of God, Jesus and this whole Plan of Redemption thing? Just some stuff I've been thinking...
Blessings
Monday, June 25, 2012
What's done in the dark, will come to light....
There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known.
~ Luke 12:2 ~
It has been said that character is what you are when no one is looking. Well someone is always looking and that someone is none other than the Lord himself. If we believe that “God Sees All” then we believe that no deed good or bad goes unnoticed; and somehow, someway when we least expect it, we are divinely rewarded for good deeds and we are punished for bad deeds. There is forgiveness, but there are always consequences.
If one does not believe in God, they should be reminded that what goes around comes around and the so called good or bad karma in life will surely result from decisions one makes in life.
by Bruce Edwards of https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
~ Luke 12:2 ~
It has been said that character is what you are when no one is looking. Well someone is always looking and that someone is none other than the Lord himself. If we believe that “God Sees All” then we believe that no deed good or bad goes unnoticed; and somehow, someway when we least expect it, we are divinely rewarded for good deeds and we are punished for bad deeds. There is forgiveness, but there are always consequences.
If one does not believe in God, they should be reminded that what goes around comes around and the so called good or bad karma in life will surely result from decisions one makes in life.
by Bruce Edwards of https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Love your enemies, bless them that curse you - say WHAT?
Pray for those who hurt you and are hateful toward you. (paraphrase Matthew 5:44) That's a toughie, correct?
In our relationships with one another, all manner of evil goes on. Even though craziness may be all around us, and we may even be part of the crazy, believers know that God has shown us "a more excellent way" (from 1 Corinthians 12:31, prelude to chapter 13).
As we keep the focus on prayer in every area of our lives, I will share one of my favorite passages, which is found in Matthew 5:43-48, Amplified Bible:
43 You have heard that it was said, You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy;
44 But I tell you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,
45 To show that you are the children of your Father Who is in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the wicked and on the good, and makes the rain fall upon the upright and the wrongdoers [alike].
46 For if you love those who love you, what reward can you have? Do not even the tax collectors do that?
47 And if you greet only your brethren, what more than others are you doing? Do not even the Gentiles (the heathen) do that?
48 You, therefore, must be perfect [growing into complete maturity of godliness in mind and character, having reached the proper height of virtue and integrity], as your heavenly Father is perfect.
I love the Amplified Bible's augmentation of the last verse. So many of us stumble over the English definition of "perfect" (without flaw). Seasoned Bible students have done the research into the original languages which give us a more accurate meaning. While we KNOW God IS perfect - we may now understand more fully that our characters (thus, our behaviors) are maturing and "growing up" into completeness - by the power of God (the indwelling Holy Spirit present in us).
"Prayer is the key that unlocks the door to forgiveness."
from: https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
In our relationships with one another, all manner of evil goes on. Even though craziness may be all around us, and we may even be part of the crazy, believers know that God has shown us "a more excellent way" (from 1 Corinthians 12:31, prelude to chapter 13).
As we keep the focus on prayer in every area of our lives, I will share one of my favorite passages, which is found in Matthew 5:43-48, Amplified Bible:
43 You have heard that it was said, You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy;
44 But I tell you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,
45 To show that you are the children of your Father Who is in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the wicked and on the good, and makes the rain fall upon the upright and the wrongdoers [alike].
46 For if you love those who love you, what reward can you have? Do not even the tax collectors do that?
47 And if you greet only your brethren, what more than others are you doing? Do not even the Gentiles (the heathen) do that?
48 You, therefore, must be perfect [growing into complete maturity of godliness in mind and character, having reached the proper height of virtue and integrity], as your heavenly Father is perfect.
I love the Amplified Bible's augmentation of the last verse. So many of us stumble over the English definition of "perfect" (without flaw). Seasoned Bible students have done the research into the original languages which give us a more accurate meaning. While we KNOW God IS perfect - we may now understand more fully that our characters (thus, our behaviors) are maturing and "growing up" into completeness - by the power of God (the indwelling Holy Spirit present in us).
"Prayer is the key that unlocks the door to forgiveness."
from: https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
Sunday, June 17, 2012
You Come to Mind
for Bruce H. Edwards
If I were to give my definition of an honest man,
you come to mind...
Not because of any great thing you do
but because you do not fail to speak from your heart
Simply, yet stated with a force so powerfully sincere,
no one can doubt your veracity
Even people whose eyes fail to see
know they've been dealt with...honestly
If I were to give my definition of a loving father,
you come to mind...
Not because there are no other loving fathers,
but because you exemplify the caring/nurturing that is
ofttimes attributed to mothers
And I marvel at the beautiful relationship/bond you enjoy
with your daughter...
"stage daddy", coach, cheering squad, guidance counselor,
lovingly wearing every hat
you come to mind whenever I think of that
If I were to give my definition of a good friend,
you come to mind...
Not because you have so many friends,
but because your quiet eyes reflect a soul
in need of one that's true
who doesn't necessarily think like you
Your tendency toward caution protects your tender heart
but when you allow someone inside,
the miracles have no end
These are a few things that come to mind
when I think of you,
my friend
If I were to give my definition of an honest man,
you come to mind...
Not because of any great thing you do
but because you do not fail to speak from your heart
Simply, yet stated with a force so powerfully sincere,
no one can doubt your veracity
Even people whose eyes fail to see
know they've been dealt with...honestly
If I were to give my definition of a loving father,
you come to mind...
Not because there are no other loving fathers,
but because you exemplify the caring/nurturing that is
ofttimes attributed to mothers
And I marvel at the beautiful relationship/bond you enjoy
with your daughter...
"stage daddy", coach, cheering squad, guidance counselor,
lovingly wearing every hat
you come to mind whenever I think of that
If I were to give my definition of a good friend,
you come to mind...
Not because you have so many friends,
but because your quiet eyes reflect a soul
in need of one that's true
who doesn't necessarily think like you
Your tendency toward caution protects your tender heart
but when you allow someone inside,
the miracles have no end
These are a few things that come to mind
when I think of you,
my friend
from Come, Joy! Songs from the soft of night
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PublishAmerica © 2005
Friday, June 15, 2012
The Bible ain't for everybody - repost
Excuse my bad English, I'm probably going to speak in the vernacular a bit here. But don't get me wrong, the Bible was given to all
wo/men. The fact is, not everyone recognizes the Bible as the Word of
God. And I get that. In order to believe that the Bible is God's "love
letter to mankind", one has to have faith. Maybe even a lot of faith.
Since I grew up believing, the leap from what my parents taught me to
what I let the Bible itself teach me wasn't that huge - once I got
serious about studying for myself.
There are varying degrees of belief concerning the Bible, too. Some people believe it's a great history book about a certain group of people, and only for that group of people. Some find the Bible full of contradiction and bloody wars commanded by an angry and jealous God. Others believe it's a nice book that has some neat guidelines on how to live in harmony with others, but no attachment to anything like soul salvation. I know a few people who consider it a book of straight fiction. And then there are those of us who believe what the Bible says about itself...that, yes, it was written by men. Most Bible detractors can't get past the "written by men" part. But - these men were filled with the Spirit of God, and wrote words of life, admonition, encouragement, and judgment, as the Spirit moved. (paraphrase 2 Peter 1:16-21) However, you can't believe that if you don't have faith.
I wrote in another post, that the Bible is as relevant to our lives today as it was way back when Moses wrote the Torah, or, the Pentateuch. (the first five books of the Bible). Grant it, my opinion is founded on my faith in the Book, and the God of the Book. I've been a serious student of the Book for a few years now, and I find that there are new insights every time I read it. Even texts I've been knowing most of my life, have brought me a different, deeper perspective than times before. David said in Psalms 119:105(KJV), Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. That's just real. And I think that people sometimes allow the volume of the Book to intimidate them - and many say they don't like the King James Version because it's too hard to comprehend with all the "thees" and "thous". That's been handled, though, because there are now so many contemporary versions that speak to the reader in today's language without watering down the message.(however, there are KJV lovers who don't trust any other version)
Add to that, there are folks who get caught up and turned off by the confusion of all these different churches and their different interpretations of what the Bible says. And that's a hot mess, for true, I ain't gonna lie. Earnest prayer goes hand in hand with Bible study. God has made His truth so clear and real to me, that I can meet up with other believers I haven't seen in months, or even years, and we find confirmation and agreement in our understanding of the teachings we've been studying! The Truth is unifying, not divisive. There were beliefs we all held in common in the past (learned in churchianity), that we now, through further study, understand much differently.
These same believers I just mentioned don't necessarily attend "church" regularly, either. They're engaged in various outreach and in-reach ministries, small Bible study groups in their homes, sometimes going from house to house. This kind of intimate fellowship cuts down on the preponderance of indoctrination/parroting that one finds within the traditional churches. Because there is the tendency some churches have of elevating/exhalting their interpretation of the Scriptures above other churches/denominations. A person who studies the Bible in sincerity, will unlearn what they were taught second hand. In other words, the Holy Spirit is the true Teacher of the Book. Jesus told the Disciples what would happen after His death and resurrection, in John 16:13 (ESV):
When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what he has heard. He will tell you about the future.
And the Apostle, John said it again in 1 John 2:27 (ESV):
But you have received the Holy Spirit, and he lives within you, so you don’t need anyone to teach you what is true. For the Spirit teaches you everything you need to know, and what he teaches is true—it is not a lie. So just as he has taught you, remain in fellowship with Christ.
Oh wow! Am I saying we don't need preachers? No - I'm not saying that. But one must be taught by a Spirit-filled preacher (finding one led by the Spirit might be tricky these days - I kid you not). So, then, how does one access the Spirit for oneself? Praying sincerely for the Lord to show us what He wants us to know of His will for us through His Word, is a good start. Check what happens when we pray... the Holy Spirit actually takes our words and translates them into heavenly language, presenting our true needs before God! The Spirit intercedes on our behalf before the Father! Don't take my word for it - see for yourself in Romans 8:26-28 (ESV)
Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.
All this stuff is meaningless if we don't have the faith necessary to believe the Book.
In conclusion, I'll share the other anchor text, that along with 2 Peter 1:16-21, settles this issue for me:
2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NLT)
All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.
My hope is that I'm striking a chord of understanding or even curiosity within the heart of whoever is seeking a closer walk with the Lord. I'm also very much aware that there are many reading this who will roll their eyes, smirk and say, "whatever!" I'm good with that, too. The Bible ain't for everybody!
Blessings!
There are varying degrees of belief concerning the Bible, too. Some people believe it's a great history book about a certain group of people, and only for that group of people. Some find the Bible full of contradiction and bloody wars commanded by an angry and jealous God. Others believe it's a nice book that has some neat guidelines on how to live in harmony with others, but no attachment to anything like soul salvation. I know a few people who consider it a book of straight fiction. And then there are those of us who believe what the Bible says about itself...that, yes, it was written by men. Most Bible detractors can't get past the "written by men" part. But - these men were filled with the Spirit of God, and wrote words of life, admonition, encouragement, and judgment, as the Spirit moved. (paraphrase 2 Peter 1:16-21) However, you can't believe that if you don't have faith.
I wrote in another post, that the Bible is as relevant to our lives today as it was way back when Moses wrote the Torah, or, the Pentateuch. (the first five books of the Bible). Grant it, my opinion is founded on my faith in the Book, and the God of the Book. I've been a serious student of the Book for a few years now, and I find that there are new insights every time I read it. Even texts I've been knowing most of my life, have brought me a different, deeper perspective than times before. David said in Psalms 119:105(KJV), Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. That's just real. And I think that people sometimes allow the volume of the Book to intimidate them - and many say they don't like the King James Version because it's too hard to comprehend with all the "thees" and "thous". That's been handled, though, because there are now so many contemporary versions that speak to the reader in today's language without watering down the message.(however, there are KJV lovers who don't trust any other version)
Add to that, there are folks who get caught up and turned off by the confusion of all these different churches and their different interpretations of what the Bible says. And that's a hot mess, for true, I ain't gonna lie. Earnest prayer goes hand in hand with Bible study. God has made His truth so clear and real to me, that I can meet up with other believers I haven't seen in months, or even years, and we find confirmation and agreement in our understanding of the teachings we've been studying! The Truth is unifying, not divisive. There were beliefs we all held in common in the past (learned in churchianity), that we now, through further study, understand much differently.
These same believers I just mentioned don't necessarily attend "church" regularly, either. They're engaged in various outreach and in-reach ministries, small Bible study groups in their homes, sometimes going from house to house. This kind of intimate fellowship cuts down on the preponderance of indoctrination/parroting that one finds within the traditional churches. Because there is the tendency some churches have of elevating/exhalting their interpretation of the Scriptures above other churches/denominations. A person who studies the Bible in sincerity, will unlearn what they were taught second hand. In other words, the Holy Spirit is the true Teacher of the Book. Jesus told the Disciples what would happen after His death and resurrection, in John 16:13 (ESV):
When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what he has heard. He will tell you about the future.
And the Apostle, John said it again in 1 John 2:27 (ESV):
But you have received the Holy Spirit, and he lives within you, so you don’t need anyone to teach you what is true. For the Spirit teaches you everything you need to know, and what he teaches is true—it is not a lie. So just as he has taught you, remain in fellowship with Christ.
Oh wow! Am I saying we don't need preachers? No - I'm not saying that. But one must be taught by a Spirit-filled preacher (finding one led by the Spirit might be tricky these days - I kid you not). So, then, how does one access the Spirit for oneself? Praying sincerely for the Lord to show us what He wants us to know of His will for us through His Word, is a good start. Check what happens when we pray... the Holy Spirit actually takes our words and translates them into heavenly language, presenting our true needs before God! The Spirit intercedes on our behalf before the Father! Don't take my word for it - see for yourself in Romans 8:26-28 (ESV)
Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.
All this stuff is meaningless if we don't have the faith necessary to believe the Book.
In conclusion, I'll share the other anchor text, that along with 2 Peter 1:16-21, settles this issue for me:
2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NLT)
All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.
My hope is that I'm striking a chord of understanding or even curiosity within the heart of whoever is seeking a closer walk with the Lord. I'm also very much aware that there are many reading this who will roll their eyes, smirk and say, "whatever!" I'm good with that, too. The Bible ain't for everybody!
Blessings!
Thursday, June 14, 2012
the unspeakable things
for the children of RLW
6/26/1954-5/8/2010
Here I am at the edge of yet another season
2 years have passed since he closed his eyes
in the silent sleep of death
The love of my youth, father of
my children... the one who embraced life with
a grip so fierce that everyone in the room could feel his energy!
He led with his heart
and his mind was quick and awesome!
When he smiled he blossomed deep-dimpled brilliance
because his eyes glowed streaks of amber rays
that pierced through dark places...
He could warm the coldest soul
win the hardest skeptic
shake the stony ground loose
and help rebuild whatever was broken in the crumble...
He was not tall in stature as men are measured
but his tower of love lifted him high above
the others
His laughter could incite an uproar
of uncontrollable shrieks of joy
tumbling down then swelling again
into side-splitting, tearful pleas
of " I CAN'T TAKE ANYMORE!"
Ahh, he was amazing!
A humble man of God
who followed in His footsteps
until the day he was called to his rest
There are days when all I can do is
quietly reflect, because the years, months, and weeks
yea, the hours I was blessed to share with him
were too wonder filled to utter!
The language always fails
My cup of memories tips over
in this moment, and
lovely is the flow
I am thankful for the gift of reflections
only some of which I now speak...
© 2012
6/26/1954-5/8/2010
Here I am at the edge of yet another season
2 years have passed since he closed his eyes
in the silent sleep of death
The love of my youth, father of
my children... the one who embraced life with
a grip so fierce that everyone in the room could feel his energy!
He led with his heart
and his mind was quick and awesome!
When he smiled he blossomed deep-dimpled brilliance
because his eyes glowed streaks of amber rays
that pierced through dark places...
He could warm the coldest soul
win the hardest skeptic
shake the stony ground loose
and help rebuild whatever was broken in the crumble...
He was not tall in stature as men are measured
but his tower of love lifted him high above
the others
His laughter could incite an uproar
of uncontrollable shrieks of joy
tumbling down then swelling again
into side-splitting, tearful pleas
of " I CAN'T TAKE ANYMORE!"
Ahh, he was amazing!
A humble man of God
who followed in His footsteps
until the day he was called to his rest
There are days when all I can do is
quietly reflect, because the years, months, and weeks
yea, the hours I was blessed to share with him
were too wonder filled to utter!
The language always fails
My cup of memories tips over
in this moment, and
lovely is the flow
I am thankful for the gift of reflections
only some of which I now speak...
© 2012
Message to the Good Fathers
for the special fathers in my life, past and present, and all the good fathers out there
You are not a myth
as some adverse propaganda
would have us believe
And if your stories were told more often
If your songs were sung from the cities
to the country towns where you dwell
It would shake the foundation of this place
just right,
and
we just might be able to restore
law and order in our homes – first
Our sons and daughters would look to you
with the admiration and respect
you deserve
You are not a hope or a dream
as many of my women friends have sometimes
imagined
You are right here, walking among us
Laboring beside us
Contributing to our communities
And if your voices could be heard
above the noise of modern day confusion
We would stop, turn about,
take heed to the wisdom from the pages
of your years in the struggle
And give you back the love and honor
you deserve!
Bridgette Edwards © 2012
You are not a myth
as some adverse propaganda
would have us believe
And if your stories were told more often
If your songs were sung from the cities
to the country towns where you dwell
It would shake the foundation of this place
just right,
and
we just might be able to restore
law and order in our homes – first
Our sons and daughters would look to you
with the admiration and respect
you deserve
You are not a hope or a dream
as many of my women friends have sometimes
imagined
You are right here, walking among us
Laboring beside us
Contributing to our communities
And if your voices could be heard
above the noise of modern day confusion
We would stop, turn about,
take heed to the wisdom from the pages
of your years in the struggle
And give you back the love and honor
you deserve!
Bridgette Edwards © 2012
Saturday, June 9, 2012
Don't Forget the Family Prayer
At Boaz Ministries, we're discussing the importance of prayer in our relationships, covering all bases from singles to couples, to families. https://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
There's an old gospel song titled "Don't Forget the Family Prayer" - many quartets and quintets have sung it. I taught it to my children and we sang it as a family together. As the song reminds us - family prayer time is special. Praying for our families can be done in a variety of ways; in your prayer closet by yourself, with your spouse, or with the entire family unit during family worship.
The fifth commandment tells us to honor our fathers and mothers, that we may live long in the land. (paraphrase Exodus 20:12, Deut. 5:16) And children can show their respect and love for their parents by praying for them. It is a sweet thing to hear children thanking God for their parents in front of the congregation at the close of the children's story in church! They volunteer with a willing spirit, and their words are so sincere! It warms my heart, and their thoughts coming through in their prayers always minister to me!
Praying with our children can start simply at bedtime after the other daily routines are completed. When we teach them how wonderful it is to have a Heavenly Father, and Friend, in Jesus, and show God's love to them, these early lessons in building a relationship with the Lord won't soon be forgotten. Consistent prayer in the home over the growth and development of our children has its rewards when they are grown and take the lead in prayer, as you gather together!
Let us not forget to pray for and with our families. And by all means, let the children pray!
Blessings!
There's an old gospel song titled "Don't Forget the Family Prayer" - many quartets and quintets have sung it. I taught it to my children and we sang it as a family together. As the song reminds us - family prayer time is special. Praying for our families can be done in a variety of ways; in your prayer closet by yourself, with your spouse, or with the entire family unit during family worship.
The fifth commandment tells us to honor our fathers and mothers, that we may live long in the land. (paraphrase Exodus 20:12, Deut. 5:16) And children can show their respect and love for their parents by praying for them. It is a sweet thing to hear children thanking God for their parents in front of the congregation at the close of the children's story in church! They volunteer with a willing spirit, and their words are so sincere! It warms my heart, and their thoughts coming through in their prayers always minister to me!
Praying with our children can start simply at bedtime after the other daily routines are completed. When we teach them how wonderful it is to have a Heavenly Father, and Friend, in Jesus, and show God's love to them, these early lessons in building a relationship with the Lord won't soon be forgotten. Consistent prayer in the home over the growth and development of our children has its rewards when they are grown and take the lead in prayer, as you gather together!
Let us not forget to pray for and with our families. And by all means, let the children pray!
Blessings!
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Not Just Another Road Trip - a very short, short story
Lynda kicked the kitchen door closed with her foot as she balanced her briefcase, grocery bags and the days’ mail in her arms. Lately, her life seemed to be a cycle of in and out, back and forth, coming and going from the high school where she was an Assistant Principal, to the University where she was working on her second Masters degree – her house was just a pit stop for a bite to eat, a bath, and a nap. It had been hard on a sista lately.
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Letting the
burden in her arms slide onto the kitchen table in a heap, Lynda’s eye caught
the note Simon had left under a picture magnet on the refrigerator.
Slipping out of her shoes and padding over to the refrigerator in her bare
feet, she retrieved the piece of paper and read it aloud – “Babe, I’ll
be back around 6:00. We need to have a conversation. Be here. It’s important; love, Simon.”
Lynda looked at the clock, it was 4:50. Simon would be home from his upholstery shop soon. She frowned,
wrinkling her nose at the tone she’d detected in Simon’s note. Things had
become a bit tense between them since they moved in together a few months ago,
and Simon was behaving strangely. He’d
been going to a Bible study group for a while now, and had invited her to come
with him many times but she always made some excuse. Lynda wasn’t pressed to get involved
with “Christians” because she’d seen too many hypocrites in her family, though she
didn’t really mind Simon’s new-found interest.
He was probably the best man she’d ever known, and the way she saw it, a
little Bible knowledge could only make him better. She'd had enough church; she didn’t need any more study. .
They’d met at
a birthday party given by a mutual friend ten years ago, when they were both
married to other people. Lynda had been
married to Jackson, a professor of Anthropology at the University, where she was now attending. They had been married for almost 20 years. Simon’s ex-wife, Tonya, was a marketing
executive at a big time firm. They had hung tough for 18 years. Between Lynda and Simon, they had four
children – Lynda’s twin sons, Marc and Eric, were in their freshman year of college; Simon’s son, Jason, a high school senior, and
daughter, Keslee, a spunky and intelligent 7 year old. According to Simon, Keslee had been their final attempt to save their
marriage.That rarely works.
The drama in
both their marriages seemed to run parallel, from the first signs of discord,
down to the end. And in a series of
events that neither Simon nor Lynda could explain to this day, their paths seemed
to cross at points when they had needed a friendly face, an understanding ear -
just a break from the noise. It was
clear to Lynda that nothing happens by accident, and their concern for each
others' well-being was genuine. They
began to keep in contact from time to time, just to “touch bases” – nothing too
intrusive. Lynda remembered encouraging
Simon to “hang in there,” and Simon, in turn, strongly recommended that she and
Jackson seek marital counseling. Lynda respected Simon’s opinion so highly, that she did drag Jackson into a few
sessions, to no avail.
And then there
were the phone calls that began to last longer than they should have. As time went on, Lynda began to look forward
to Simon’s calls and emails; she could tell by the sound of his voice that he’d
begun to feel the same. But they never 'crossed the line.' Simon and Tonya
divorced a year after Lynda and Jackson.
It had been “Irreconcilable Differences” in both cases; the catch-all,
no-fault divorce. Seemed like before
the ink could even dry on Simon’s divorce papers, Lynda and Simon had started dating.
Against her
better judgment, Lynda surrendered to Simon’s special charms almost
immediately. He loved her, wanted her,
and it was obvious. Because she’d met
Tonya socially years ago, Lynda had a good sense of Tonya’s philosophy on
marriage and family. Indeed, Tonya knew
a lot about Lynda, as well. And Tonya
was an incredible wife, mother and businesswoman, by Simon’s own
admission. Jackson was a great guy,
wonderful father and provider, too, but… And that “but” still clanged and
rattled around in Lynda’s head, a reminder of something she wanted to keep
hidden from herself, perhaps? She couldn't put her finger on it. What had actually
gone wrong in both their marriages was still an unsolved mystery.
Lynda seasoned
the boneless chicken thighs for the broccoli, cheese and rice casserole Simon
loved. Her mind drifted back four
months, after the twins left for college, when Simon suggested they move in
together. He and Tonya shared custody of
their children, some crazy arrangement of half a week and every other weekend
apiece. Simon had a small apartment and
wanted to consolidate their living space, especially since he spent most of his
time at her house. Lynda was against
the living together thing mostly because of Jason and Keslee. It was bad enough
that the children would have to come to her house – but even worse, she and
Simon weren’t even married and had no plans of getting married in the near
future. She was a little surprised that this still bothered her. And her sons
were split in their decision on who they’d rather be with on breaks from
school; Eric preferred her, Marc preferred his father. It stabbed at her heart
a little, not to have both sons during the holidays, thinking about now it made
her shiver. She thought out loud, “What
were we thinking?”
Standing at
the sink, looking out at her backyard, Lynda’s mind traveled across the years
since Simon came into her life. They
shared many things in common. It seemed
their very souls were entwined; something they even said was “ordained by
God.” It sounded good, and it felt
right. Simon showed his devotion to her
in so many ways; Lynda never doubted his heart was hers. She had enough life experience to know that
there are many levels of love, and the heart has the capacity to embrace many
loves within its treasure chambers – but there is one special love above all
others. And as far as she could tell,
Simon was hers, and she was his. “But…”
There was that word again.
The salad was
made, and the casserole was baking with five more minutes on the timer. It would be a simple meal – thankfully, Simon
wasn’t picky. He loved flavorful and
filling home cooked meals. Lynda loved cooking for him. Simon’s ability to
enjoy the simple pleasures in life was part of his charm. There was a gusto with which he dove into
everything that captured his attention, and his heart. This was who Simon was to Lynda. And there was no doubt in her mind that she
loved him.
Keys jangling in the front
door broke into Lynda’s reverie, and in a moment, Simon’s tall, lanky frame
filled the doorway of the kitchen. “Hey Babe,” Simon said cheerfully as he
moved toward her and leaned in for a peck on her lips. “See you got my note,” he nodded toward the
piece of paper on the table.
“Yes,
Simon, I got it. Was wondering why you’d
think I might not be home at 6:00, you know my schedule. Ain’t nothing jumping off after 4:30 on a
Friday!” Lynda laughed, her eyes searching his face for something. Anything.
“Mmmmm, something smells good, what’s
cooking?”
“Your favorite casserole, Baby. It was
quick and I know how you get when you’re hungry,” teased Lynda. They both began setting the table for two and
once seated, Simon’s mood became quiet.
Lynda could tell he was struggling with something he wanted to say. But she didn’t press him. She became aware
that she was still staring at him after he’d finished blessing the food.
And for a few uneasy moments, they ate without speaking. Finally, Simon’s voice broke the silence.
“Lyn, we need to talk about something
that’s been on my mind for the past few days.
It’s pretty important.” Lynda’s own voice could not be found, so she nodded her head to at
least send Simon the message that she was listening. Simon continued, “You know I’ve been going to the Bible study group
every week for the past couple of months, right?” Chewing very slowly, Lynda nodded again.
“And I’ve been really learning a lot from
the Scriptures, more than I even knew was in there,”Simon paused, waiting for
Lynda to respond. When she didn’t, he
went on, “We’ve been studying in the New
Testament about how God wants us to live according to His will, not our own.
But in order to do that we have to know what His will is; and not only that, we
must trust and love Him more than we love anybody. “ Simon stopped for a
breath, then continued, “Now, I know there are things you and I have done wrong
in ignorance, and I can show you from the Bible what they are. But there is forgiveness for us, too, Lyn--
“
Lynda finally found her voice and spoke with a touch of
indignation, “ --Oh, so you done gone and got ‘holy’ on me now? I haven’t done
anything that needs to be forgiven, Simon…I just don’t think so! They got you over there feeling guilty for
nothing! We’re good people! We haven’t hurt anyone!”
“Babe, now I know how you feel about
Christians being hypocrites, but hypocrites are not true Christians. You’ve
probably never met a real Christian, Lyn,” Simon said softly, looking Lynda
straight in the eyes. Lynda began to feel slightly uncomfortable under Simon’s gaze, and
looked away. Something was gnawing at
her insides, her gut instincts were bubbling and she suspected it had to do
with the “buts” still floating around in her head.
“Lyn, honey, I can show you in the Word
that what I’m saying is true. And
believe me, it blew my mind! But I’ve
learned that the Lord isn’t out to make our lives miserable. We do that pretty well on our own. No, He wants to give us life more abundantly,
Lyn. It’s true!” Simon’s eyes were
piercing straight through the toughened membranes of Lynda’s heart, and while she
was afraid to acknowledge the truth, she was more fearful of holding on to a
lie.
“What is it that you want to show me,
Simon?” Lynda sighed with a tinge of impatience mixed with curiosity.
“What I need to tell you first, is that
our lifestyle right now doesn’t glorify the Lord. We can’t live together like this. We need to get married,” Simon said in a tone that was at once matter of fact and rather sweet.
“Get married?!” Lynda blurted so unexpectedly she had to catch herself. This was a moment of truth for her. She’d thought of marriage, but pushed it out
of her mind, making herself believe things were perfect the way they were.
“And if you don’t want to marry right
away, and I don't know why you wouldn't, I’ll have to move out until we do.” Simon replied, with conviction. “You see, Babe, where we may have started
this relationship out wrong, it’s not impossible to make it right in God’s
sight.” Lynda stared blankly, suddenly feeling nauseous.
“Plus, we have other people to think
about,” Simon went on. “We’ve hurt some innocent people by our choices. Now, I’m not saying I don’t love you. Because I do; you know I do! But I see now that I’ve got to make things
right with God. It’s important to me not
to disrespect Him or His Word. It’s
important to me not to cause others to stumble because I’m not doing
right. Babe, I don’t want to be a
hypocrite calling myself a Christian--”
“--Just who would you be causing to
‘stumble’, as you put it, Simon?”
“First of all our KIDS! I intend to share what I’m learning with my
kids, and how can I be legit if I don’t walk the talk? I don’t want Jason and Keslee
to have any grounds to call me a hypocrite.
Jason already does, I’m sure, but I don’t want them sounding like you,
Lyn! I don’t want them to reject God because of my bad witness. I’m finding out a lot of things in Bible study, and they aren’t all comfortable things, either. But I know in
my heart that it’s right! The truth hurts, Lyn, I accept that, Babe.”
“Do you know what you’re saying, Simon?
Do you really know? Have you considered
that if you go this way, you and I could possibly never be together? Have you studied the part about divorce yet,
Simon? Have they showed you that in
God’s eyes, our divorces from our exes are BOGUS because we didn't divorce for the cause of adultery, the only out the Bible gives, Simon? Huh, Simon? If you wanna be 'old school' and do it to the letter, Simon, have you found out that what we’re doing
right now is still considered adultery and fornication? And that also means Tonya and her boyfriend are in sin as well, according to THE WORD! CAN YOU GET WITH THAT, SIMON?!” Lynda shouted, feeling near hysteria, hot tears
welling in her eyes.
Simon’s body slumped back against the
dinette chair as if he had been punched in the chest, and he stared at Lynda, speechless. They didn’t move, but were aware of the
others' breathing. Lynda saw the pool of
tears forming in Simon’s eyes.
Finally, slowly, Simon spoke, “You knew all this stuff and didn't tell me? I only just learned about the strait gate. I'm just now wrapping my mind around it. I mean, 'strait' - that means it’s difficult, and it’s a very narrow path.…and...and that’s why most people won’t take that road, Babe. It’s not popular and it sure ain’t comfortable. We need to get some understanding. I know God doesn't hold me responsible for what I, we didn't know, right? There's forgiveness for us, correct? How can I go back to an ex-wife who has moved on- when I love you? How does it work, Lyn, can you tell me that?”
Finally, slowly, Simon spoke, “You knew all this stuff and didn't tell me? I only just learned about the strait gate. I'm just now wrapping my mind around it. I mean, 'strait' - that means it’s difficult, and it’s a very narrow path.…and...and that’s why most people won’t take that road, Babe. It’s not popular and it sure ain’t comfortable. We need to get some understanding. I know God doesn't hold me responsible for what I, we didn't know, right? There's forgiveness for us, correct? How can I go back to an ex-wife who has moved on- when I love you? How does it work, Lyn, can you tell me that?”
Lynda shook her head 'no', then nodded 'yes' in an odd, circular motion, tears spilling freely down
her cheeks…”I don't know all the answers, Simon, but I am sure of what I just said, It's all in the Book. And I’m so sorry. I did know these things all along.
I’ve been trying to avoid that road for the past 20 something years." She
stood up and took Simon’s hand. They
walked into the living room where Lynda removed a book from the bookcase. It was a Bible that Simon had never seen. He
didn’t know Lynda even owned a Bible. In
silence, he followed her to the couch and they sat down. Lynda opened the Bible
to Matthew 7 and read verses 13 and 14.
“Enter ye at the strait gate; for wide is the gate, and broad is the way
that leads to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because
strait is the gate and narrow is the way which leads to life, and few there be
that find it.”
When she closed the Bible, Simon cradled her hands inside his. They sat in the
quiet of the living room, side by side, each contemplating the future. It had
been a very long day at the end of a very long week. And now, it seemed everything was winding down in slo mo. Lynda knew that
the issues she’d been avoiding could no longer be ignored. Simon’s search for Truth was working a
miracle in her own heart, in short order.
Lynda realized she couldn’t be a “closet Christian” any longer. Simon’s sincerity was compelling, and just
like everything else he put his heart and soul into, this new commitment to be
one of God’s people was for keeps. There
were going to be some tough decisions to make, and soon.
The signs warning of twists and
turns lay before Lynda on this road. Her
faith was in serious disrepair and needed more than a retread job. Prayer would be necessary for this new
direction she was taking – and she couldn’t remember the last time she prayed. Her Bible would be her compass that would not only show her the way, but keep the path lighted. “Only God knows the end from the beginning”, something
she remembered from a sermon long ago.
And Lynda had learned as a child that she would never be left alone if
she put her trust in Him. Well God was about to be put to the test now. Inside, she was kicking and screaming - it wasn't going to be pretty. This
was not just another road trip, and Lynda knew that, too..
"Let's pray, Lyn," Simon whispered, "we need to ask God for direction, Babe. I know that's where we have to start." As they joined hands and bowed in prayer together, an unexplainable sense of peace began to
blossom within Lynda as she thought about the unknown up ahead. Even if Simon couldn’t
walk the rest of the journey with her, she felt assured that the Lord Himself would be her traveling
companion, and guide her safely to her destination. No, it wasn't going to be easy, but God...
© 2006 from the manuscript, This October
Monday, June 4, 2012
Don't worry, pray about it...
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.
Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can
understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in
Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 NLT
The old folks' counsel has always been some of the best I've ever received. "Chile, if you got a problem, pray about it"; "Sugar if you got a question, ask the Lord!" As I've said, it took me a while to really get the full benefit of a consistent prayer life. I look back and realize that God blessed me mightily by choosing my parents and extended family before I was born. They raised me to know about Him. God was even looking out for me when He blessed me with my first husband, the late, great, R. Lamont Wynn. And as we raised our children and grew more and more involved in ministry - we began to see how crucial it is for believers to pray for guidance and discernment about every decision; especially the major ones! As a result of our understanding, we sat down with our three children and instructed them thoroughly, with the Bible as our source, on the importance of being selective and prayerful in everything.
It is evident, as we look around today, that young people are not consulting the Lord first about important relationship choices; unfortunately, neither are the older people. Then there are instances when "praying people" ask for the wrong things because we want what we want and we know we're supposed to "run it by" Jesus. (James 4:2-3) Men and women going through divorce have shared with me that they realized they hadn't been specific when they prayed for a wife or husband. One brother told me, "I prayed for someone who is smart, career minded, beautiful and of my same denomination; and that's what I got. I forgot to ask for someone who was loving, compassionate and knows the Lord." I had to agree, there's a big difference. Quite honestly, even believers who know to "ask the Lord" - are usually already decided upon someone, or, will make a mistake due to impatience. So, I'm not saying God gave that brother that particular wife. (because God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16 NLT says it straight out!) But I do know that this brother knows what he's looking for now, is asking the Lord to work his issues out - and is waiting for her, if it be God's will.
Our choices, when guided by fervent prayer as we seek His will, are blessed. We should be specific, keeping in mind the type of character we desire in a mate. There need not be any rush, or anxiety, worry, or pressure. As the above text so aptly puts it - don't worry, pray about (some things? no!) EVERYTHING! Be thankful to God for what He's already done... take your hands off of it, watch for His signals, and enjoy the peace that comes from knowing He's handling your business - thoroughly! (Ask me how I know!)
Blessings
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The old folks' counsel has always been some of the best I've ever received. "Chile, if you got a problem, pray about it"; "Sugar if you got a question, ask the Lord!" As I've said, it took me a while to really get the full benefit of a consistent prayer life. I look back and realize that God blessed me mightily by choosing my parents and extended family before I was born. They raised me to know about Him. God was even looking out for me when He blessed me with my first husband, the late, great, R. Lamont Wynn. And as we raised our children and grew more and more involved in ministry - we began to see how crucial it is for believers to pray for guidance and discernment about every decision; especially the major ones! As a result of our understanding, we sat down with our three children and instructed them thoroughly, with the Bible as our source, on the importance of being selective and prayerful in everything.
It is evident, as we look around today, that young people are not consulting the Lord first about important relationship choices; unfortunately, neither are the older people. Then there are instances when "praying people" ask for the wrong things because we want what we want and we know we're supposed to "run it by" Jesus. (James 4:2-3) Men and women going through divorce have shared with me that they realized they hadn't been specific when they prayed for a wife or husband. One brother told me, "I prayed for someone who is smart, career minded, beautiful and of my same denomination; and that's what I got. I forgot to ask for someone who was loving, compassionate and knows the Lord." I had to agree, there's a big difference. Quite honestly, even believers who know to "ask the Lord" - are usually already decided upon someone, or, will make a mistake due to impatience. So, I'm not saying God gave that brother that particular wife. (because God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16 NLT says it straight out!) But I do know that this brother knows what he's looking for now, is asking the Lord to work his issues out - and is waiting for her, if it be God's will.
Our choices, when guided by fervent prayer as we seek His will, are blessed. We should be specific, keeping in mind the type of character we desire in a mate. There need not be any rush, or anxiety, worry, or pressure. As the above text so aptly puts it - don't worry, pray about (some things? no!) EVERYTHING! Be thankful to God for what He's already done... take your hands off of it, watch for His signals, and enjoy the peace that comes from knowing He's handling your business - thoroughly! (Ask me how I know!)
Blessings
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Saturday, June 2, 2012
Prayer - an intimate connection
It took me nearly 40 years to understand the importance of prayer, and how this form of communication with the Lord brings not only comfort and peace, it binds our hearts closer to Him. Prayer, in my opinion, is simply a conversation with our very best Friend. God loves us with an everlasting love and with His lovingkindness He has drawn us to Him! (paraphrase Jeremiah 31:3). No human being can claim that!
Many of us have heard it said, "prayer is the key that unlocks heaven's doors", or "prayer is the key in the hand of faith", and, "prayer is the key to the heart of God." Well, I believe all of the above. It's not that the omniscient God doesn't know what's in our thoughts, or is unaware of our concerns - because the Bible says He knows even the secret things! (Daniel 2:20-22) Our communion with God is more about relationship with Him. And prayers are not always requests; things we want God to do for us. A prayer may be a simple "thank You, Lord", in the morning when we open our eyes to see a brand new day. A prayer may be a conversation with the Lord while driving to work - going over plans and seeking His guidance. I have found, in my own experience, how having "a little talk with Jesus", really does clear my mind. And even when things don't go well, my foundation stands firm. I'm not shaken because I've fortified my mind, heart and soul and have the assurance of His divine presence. The proof is usually manifested in the way a potentially horrible outcome is buoyed or even avoided because of a word placed in my mouth at the right time - when I would have otherwise made things worse (in the flesh). I've tried handling things my way, and I know the difference. Now, I never leave home without spending time in prayer and the Word!
Prayer gives us supernatural powers! Power to love the unlovable, and give of ourselves when we're really not in the mood, seeking nothing in return! We're not alone when we've asked the Lord to order our steps in His Word. (Ps 37:23; 119:133) God knows us by heart, and when we've been communicating with Him on a regular basis, He grants us the desires of our hearts because we've become one in the Spirit with Him and His Son, Jesus. (Ps 37:4) We're not perfect, by any means, but we're sons and daughters after God's own heart because we have accepted His Gift of love! If someone has wronged us, we as believers know we must forgive! (Matt. 5:14-15; Mark 11:25-26) When we do wrong, we confess (agree) our error before Him and ask forgiveness, and He does!(1 John 1:9) If we have wronged someone, we know that the Word of God requires us to ask that person for forgiveness. (Matt. 5:22-24) AND HE GIVES US THE POWER TO WALK THE TALK! Prayer for strength in difficult situations is God's specialty. I know that the favor and blessings I receive in my life are due to the powerful prayers of friends and family on my behalf. And so, my relationship with God is ever increasing because of His faithfulness toward me - I can't help but praise and thank Him daily for grace - which is unmerited favor!
When we open ourselves to a closer walk with God, we cannot remain the same. Our thought processes change; our way of life changes. Our friends may not even recognize us anymore. (we won't recognize ourselves!) And some friends will fall by the waysi(de because of the light that shines within you. We have heard it said that prayer changes things. I'm a living witness to this fact. When we allow the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, into our hearts (which is Christ dwelling within us) - we begin an amazing transformation! (Romans 12:1-2; Philippians 2:5)
You know how we say, when someone has spent quality time with their beloved, there is a glow about them? The glow is even more intense when we've had an intimate connection with our Lord and Savior. It's unexplainable, but for those who have daily communion with God, it's understood.
I pray that we become more curious about the joy a closer walk can bring us through an intentional, prayerful connection with God. I guarantee you more fulfillment than you've ever known!
Blessings!
Many of us have heard it said, "prayer is the key that unlocks heaven's doors", or "prayer is the key in the hand of faith", and, "prayer is the key to the heart of God." Well, I believe all of the above. It's not that the omniscient God doesn't know what's in our thoughts, or is unaware of our concerns - because the Bible says He knows even the secret things! (Daniel 2:20-22) Our communion with God is more about relationship with Him. And prayers are not always requests; things we want God to do for us. A prayer may be a simple "thank You, Lord", in the morning when we open our eyes to see a brand new day. A prayer may be a conversation with the Lord while driving to work - going over plans and seeking His guidance. I have found, in my own experience, how having "a little talk with Jesus", really does clear my mind. And even when things don't go well, my foundation stands firm. I'm not shaken because I've fortified my mind, heart and soul and have the assurance of His divine presence. The proof is usually manifested in the way a potentially horrible outcome is buoyed or even avoided because of a word placed in my mouth at the right time - when I would have otherwise made things worse (in the flesh). I've tried handling things my way, and I know the difference. Now, I never leave home without spending time in prayer and the Word!
Prayer gives us supernatural powers! Power to love the unlovable, and give of ourselves when we're really not in the mood, seeking nothing in return! We're not alone when we've asked the Lord to order our steps in His Word. (Ps 37:23; 119:133) God knows us by heart, and when we've been communicating with Him on a regular basis, He grants us the desires of our hearts because we've become one in the Spirit with Him and His Son, Jesus. (Ps 37:4) We're not perfect, by any means, but we're sons and daughters after God's own heart because we have accepted His Gift of love! If someone has wronged us, we as believers know we must forgive! (Matt. 5:14-15; Mark 11:25-26) When we do wrong, we confess (agree) our error before Him and ask forgiveness, and He does!(1 John 1:9) If we have wronged someone, we know that the Word of God requires us to ask that person for forgiveness. (Matt. 5:22-24) AND HE GIVES US THE POWER TO WALK THE TALK! Prayer for strength in difficult situations is God's specialty. I know that the favor and blessings I receive in my life are due to the powerful prayers of friends and family on my behalf. And so, my relationship with God is ever increasing because of His faithfulness toward me - I can't help but praise and thank Him daily for grace - which is unmerited favor!
When we open ourselves to a closer walk with God, we cannot remain the same. Our thought processes change; our way of life changes. Our friends may not even recognize us anymore. (we won't recognize ourselves!) And some friends will fall by the waysi(de because of the light that shines within you. We have heard it said that prayer changes things. I'm a living witness to this fact. When we allow the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, into our hearts (which is Christ dwelling within us) - we begin an amazing transformation! (Romans 12:1-2; Philippians 2:5)
You know how we say, when someone has spent quality time with their beloved, there is a glow about them? The glow is even more intense when we've had an intimate connection with our Lord and Savior. It's unexplainable, but for those who have daily communion with God, it's understood.
I pray that we become more curious about the joy a closer walk can bring us through an intentional, prayerful connection with God. I guarantee you more fulfillment than you've ever known!
Blessings!
Friday, June 1, 2012
Boaz Ministries
It's been a little while since I posted here. Much has been going on and I'm here to share the news about the relationship ministry I'm now involved in with my husband, Bruce Edwards.
Boaz Ministries was Bruce's idea a few years ago, and his aim and mission was to encourage men, single and married, in developing and sustaining strong, healthy, loving and Godly relationships with their women and wives. The name "Boaz" is taken from the book of Ruth in the Bible. Boaz was a just and noble man and his is an amazing story of protection, devotion and love. Today, we'd definitely call him "marriage material", a real man! My Christian sistas out there already understand, with a knowing smile, when the name "Boaz" is mentioned.
By definition, Boaz means, "in strength" - and is a fitting name for this ministry. My background in family services/counseling, is a wonderful blend, and therefore, Bruce and I joined forces and extended our reach to include women, single, premarital, and married. We understand that the family is the foundation of our communities and society. We see there is a spiritual attack against the family - and the battle cannot be won using ordinary (carnal) weapons.
At Boaz Ministries, we seek to provide some relief, encouragement, tips, counsel and prayer - all based on the Word of God. For as I have written elsewhere on this blog - there isn't any human situation that the Bible does not speak to, whether specifically or in principle.
We have a Facebook page and I welcome you to come by and take a look. From time to time I will also post insights here that Bruce and I will share at Boaz Ministries.
http://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
Boaz Ministries was Bruce's idea a few years ago, and his aim and mission was to encourage men, single and married, in developing and sustaining strong, healthy, loving and Godly relationships with their women and wives. The name "Boaz" is taken from the book of Ruth in the Bible. Boaz was a just and noble man and his is an amazing story of protection, devotion and love. Today, we'd definitely call him "marriage material", a real man! My Christian sistas out there already understand, with a knowing smile, when the name "Boaz" is mentioned.
By definition, Boaz means, "in strength" - and is a fitting name for this ministry. My background in family services/counseling, is a wonderful blend, and therefore, Bruce and I joined forces and extended our reach to include women, single, premarital, and married. We understand that the family is the foundation of our communities and society. We see there is a spiritual attack against the family - and the battle cannot be won using ordinary (carnal) weapons.
At Boaz Ministries, we seek to provide some relief, encouragement, tips, counsel and prayer - all based on the Word of God. For as I have written elsewhere on this blog - there isn't any human situation that the Bible does not speak to, whether specifically or in principle.
We have a Facebook page and I welcome you to come by and take a look. From time to time I will also post insights here that Bruce and I will share at Boaz Ministries.
http://www.facebook.com/theboazministries
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